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Friendship |
If you'd ask me about the worst type of heartbreak someone can have I'd say it's about friends, to friends, from friends.
But the crucial thing which we mostly ignore in friendships at the time of making friends is the ability of an individual for being our friend. As friends are a much important part of our life we should be cautious enough to select a friend. I know it's such a kind relationship that we cannot simply reject somebody's friendship. But as you surely have heard that your company makes you, or breaks you. So don't select a negative person as your friend.
Some people are like, flowers you touch and they left their fragrance with you for a long period and some people, in contrast, are like coal, you touched them and then you cannot clear your hands easily.
The more difficult part than selecting good friends is the evaluation of your current friends and saying good buy to them. Like all other toxic relationships bad friendships also don't do anything good for us. Such toxic friends ruined your life, your happiness, and your self-respect and damaged you for other coming humans. The first step to saving yourself from toxic friends is recognizing all the red flags they have because always remember, that all the betrayals that happened to us don't happen suddenly. Every negative person and negative energy carries red flags 🔻 naturally. So be intelligent enough to identify all such signs and get rid of such persons.
Signs toxic friends have:
- They'll always butter you no matter right or wrong whatever you are doing.
- They have fake smiles on their faces at your achievements.
- They'll always discourage your new ideas and gonna tell you that this is not gonna work for you.
- They'll backbite others in front of you, and obviously you in front of others.
- They don't really have their own personal opinion, but they'll always select the opinion of the majority or powerful in the group.
- Another trait is that they're friends with everyone.
- They will torture you mentally just for knowing their importance.
- In every dispute or fight they always, in the end, play the victim card making you feel guilty and wrong.
- Don't select a person as your friend who is not kind.
- Judgemental
If you find any such thing in your "friends" give them a good buy and try to find people who nurture your soul and life with peace and happiness.
Also, lemme know in the comments which traits your toxic friend had, and also is it really easy to say goodbye to your friends?
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Ham kisi ko judge krne pr ayein toh Unme or ham mai koi farq nhi.
Khair rahi baat Frnds ko goodbye kehne ki toh "Haan" yeh bht asan hai.
Almost 75% logo k liye yeh banawati rishty hn, chahy woh kisi ko kitna hi q naah chahty hon yeh insaani fitrat hai. Jazak Allah
دل لگانے کو ابھی سارا جہاں باقی ہے