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"Enduring" or "ability to let it happen" is an incredible mental strength. In human life, there are a lot of things happening every single day, second. Sometimes we take things to much seriously and made ourselves too stressed. Which is completely a wrong approach towards problems and grieves.
I believe that every human has his own complete story, with a 'start', 'storyline', 'new chapter', 'character development, 'climax', and 'end'. When you're studying a book e.g; a novel, "have you ever felt frustrated with the actions of the main characters"? Like there are believing again and again in their toxic friend? And you'll be like " come on dude can't you see he's manipulating you? Fooling you?", "Why so dumb huh?" Now first of all put yourself into that character's shoes, he inside the story cannot understand the story like you from outside reading it. And secondly, think about such a story and you'll agree with me on this that those glitches or blunders or frauds were all part of that story, that collectively and broadly helps the story to grow and have a happy ending. This is what we need to understand, every single dumb or wrong thing happening in our life is helping us to grow, and contributing to our story.
You surely would've read the phrase
" Let it hurt, until it can't hurt anymore"
In our context, we can interpret it in this way let yourself get hurt by this scam, this heartbreak, this failure, this betrayal until you finally be able to understand the logic and cause of this by seeing the growth it will create.
Now let me clarify something here, by letting it happen I didn't mean that you can't feel bad about it, you can't cry over it, you can't be unhappy, all I am trying to convey is don't take it on yourself too hard, don't get yourself in permanent misery. Don't think that this is the end of your life and you can't be happy again. It will take time and you should take your all time, but get up finally and face everything, start over everything again, no matter how much effort and time it takes, you will get your ending eventually. 🖤
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